I have not been following your story I guess. Before I can say my choice I need to know what has led up to this. Cheating, drinking, drug use and physical abuse are all grounds for divorce in my book.

I have been in a bad marriage for 18 years and am contemplating getting out. But none of the above have happened. So I am having a hard time deciding myself. Give a quick run down and a more definitive answer will be easier to come by.