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I may be the only one here Sure she should have called before, but can you blame your T for worrying about you and your safety based on the last months?

I can understand why you got upset about this situation, but would it have made a difference if she had called in advance? How would your reaction have been and would you even have picked up the phone?

As I said I can totally emphazise with the whole "having police showing up without warning". I just don´t think you are being fair to her. You chose to terminate via email, she worries send you a couple emails back and you don´t respond. As I understand you have used emails alot back and forth between sessions?

She may have overreacted and from what you write obviously she should have try to call or text you. Still, I don´t think you are being totally fair to her.

For a T to do this she had to be extremely concerned for you. She may not have handled it "correctly" but at least try to validate her perspective to.

I suspect having suicidal clients who threatens SI and so on is not the easiest thing in the world and you already knows she is trulely invested in you, the treatment, worries and cares alot. Then you decide to terminate via email and don´t respond when she asks if you are allrigt?
She has proven over and over....AND over that she truly does care for you and trying to keep you safe.

I suspect the whole hug and a kiss thing got to much and this is why you are know " running " away from this attachtment starting to develop. That would make perfectly sense in your case..Yet all legally stuff and all set aside..she was just really worried about you because she cares and you sort of didn´t make her worries any less, first by terminating then not responding.

Sorry I may be the only one who feels this way and I have a hard time not being " a bit stiff and formal" when I write in English.
It´s written because I care about you to and with good intentions a heart I hope you know that already.

Edit to add: I can see you are responding to another post. Haven´t read it yet..so what ever it says keep that in mind,my post is not based on that.