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Originally Posted by TentativeConnection
and yea I do feel like I dont deserve her and shes going to leave me, but I still ask for and get hugs. So.... ::shrug:: I don't want to give her up. (well, I do every few weeks.) she said "what the ****, you cant just go quitting therapy every time it gets hard." i said yes ican i do it all the time, lol.
and she said well fine then it has consequences.
and she asked why i came to my session tonight after i spent all day quitting.
and i said because its my time. she laughed and said she was tempted to give my time away just to see what i would do since i told her repeatedly i wasnt coming. i'm glad she didnt bc that would have upset me way more than the police thing. its my time.
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TC, you're playing games again with your T, and those games are going to blow up in your face one of these times. Your T may take you at your word one of these times and cancel your session, and honestly, you won't have any right to be upset about that. You will have done it to yourself. It's NOT your time if you tell her you quit or aren't coming. It is HER time, her business, and it's her option to schedule someone else in that spot once you cancel.