It wasn't until recently that I found out that I had BPD. I've always had... noticable issues, though. Everyone knows there's something wrong with me, but only a handful have specifics. What really grinds my gears is being constantly told I'm just weak, melodramatic, and pathetic. People just treat me like a kid having a tantrum or like a dangerous criminal. Apparently "Borderline" or "Dysregulated Emotions" translate to sociopath. Which is just not fair. I'm not evil, I'm not soulless, I'm not violent. Just got issues.