My lifestyle has changed drastically over the past few years. Not for the better. Most days are very depressing. I work 14 hours a day, 3 to 4 hours are spent on the commute alone. Since the recession, although after 2 years of not working, I did find a job...but it pays 1/3 of what I was making before. I have no cable, internet at home. I do not have anyone to come in to clean every month. I live on necessity. I have not had a vacation in several years. If I had to come up with a little money, it would be because it is an emergency....and I feel as though I am giving up a little piece of my soul if I have to ask. It is pure humiliation. But thankfully, yes, I have that. For now.