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Originally Posted by Rose Panachée
I had another incident at work this morning that totally set me off. I want to check myself into the hospital. I cannot take these 'effing aholes - at all - today. I am going to have a complete meltdown.
Every single time I try to be proactive and assert myself, this ONE guy shoots me down. Every single time. Not because my ideas / plans are unattainable or even COST anything to the company, but simply because he it seems he is a total sadist and enjoys saying "no" to me.
I hate when my father did it and I hate when this d*** does it.
I directly report to the CCO and President and they hate confrontation...so they won't do anything about it. Everything is so confusing to me. There is no rhyme or reason to anything, the other offices do as they please with the CFO's blessing, but apparently our office (me) gets a different treatment from him. I don't even have a budget. What a total D***.
This is not good ... I am totally having SI right now. I see no out.
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Rose, that sucks so bad. I can only imagine. I was in a job once where the main manager--who was younger than everyone by several years--was obviously and regularly stealing time (and sometimes money) from the store (family owned). When she was at work she did very little. She ended up firing me over stuff I was told was not a penalty (having your drawer $2 or less off). Before that, though, I asked my Asst. Mng, "Can't you tell the owners about this?" "I've tried," she said, "but they don't seem to care." Three wks after letting me go, the owners caught her in a big lie/stealing time again, and fired her.
It is so frustrating when you know you are trying to do a good job and the those-in-charge turn their eyes to the crap going on.
I'm so sorry this is going on, and so sorry you're having SI.
I wish I could hug you in person.
PM me anytime.