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Old Oct 25, 2012, 04:54 PM
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Originally Posted by jimrat View Post

I have classic OCD with intrusive thoughts and repeating behavior for example.

I connect emotionally to things, so if something breaks, I have a hard time throwing it out. I don't live with tons of things like the worst hoarders, you wouldn't notice so much. But it hurts me emotionally to throw things out that I attached to. I broke the handle of my cow mug. The mug is now in a top cabinet, sigh. I couldn't toss it yet.

Also I keep "good to have" items. Many actually come to use when either I need it or a friend asks "do you have a...?" I don't want to throw out things that can come to good use. Even those things I have no emotional attachment to I keep. Want a 1 gig harddrive? Didn't think so. A mangled network cable? Maybe it can be good for something... A surplus of key chains? A flashlight that doesn't work? Stumps of candle? I think my issue is that I can't really imagine what will be useful or not so I err on the "safe" side....

While OCD is a type of anxiety coupled with endless routes in my head, hoarding for me is a thing of attachment. Keeping things is a feeling of how things shouldn't go to waste, and consumption shouldn't be a primary thing. Prepping is for me emotionless. It's a thing of logic. I don't fear hard times, I just want to make them easier on me.
This describes my bf very well. He has kept things for years he has an emotional attachment to that actually can't be used for anything and take up space. I understand the attachment in my own way, cuz I have things maybe I'm not that fond of anymore but someone I no longer see but miss gave it to me, so I keep it, that kind of thing. I just don't get as emotionally attached, it seems, to things like my bf does.

I really appreciate this post, JimRat. You've brought clarity to stockpiling/hoarding that is very helpful.
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