I am brand spanking new. Hello there! Anyhoo, I was officially diagnosed with BPD about 2 days ago, but my therapists in the past have told me that I show symptoms of BPD, so it wasn't a huge surprise. I'm wondering if anyone has advice about identity issues. My biggest problem (other than perpetual self-destruction) is not knowing who I am, and I often take on other people's problems/characteristics/personality because I don't have a solid identity of my own. Can anyone relate to this?