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Originally Posted by autotelica
It's people "playing games" and being needlessly complicated with their emotions/behaviors. For easily exhausted people like myself, this is being abusive. I imagine if I knew you in real life and I had wrapped myself up in a tight knot with worry over you--only then to be cussed out--I'd be REAL exhausted.
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Not to hijack....but I can very much relate to this....which is why my work IRL is to get out of relationships like this. There have been way too many borderlines in my life. I need to figure out why I gravitate towards those types of relationships when they are clearly unhealthy for me. Luckily, I am doing much better with this IRL now - by setting limits, making myself a priority and terminating those unhealthy relationships. It frustrates me to discover that I'm "doing it to myself" again on PC....gotta figure this out and get back on track.