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Originally Posted by TentativeConnection
And youre in it bc you chose to respond to my thread. You can always delete your responses...
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You're absolutely right! I have no desire to delete my responses. It's just as important for my work to understand why I chose to respond...especially when it's been my work to avoid BPD-type relationships. My lack of limit-setting, recognizing red flags, and my tendency to be intimidated and easily taken advantage of by others allows me to be an easy target for borderlines.
Perhaps it's as simple as a lapse of good judgment on my part....doing what's familiar rather than what's best for me....or maybe it's more complicated than that. Something I need to figure out, so I can work towards becoming stronger in my journey for better health and happiness.