Man, i wrote an epic response that didnt send

The jist, tha.k you muchly.for the response.

i think she is straight to be honest. Ive been in this situation before myself.and its not fun. When i meet a lesbian, im attracted to them in both ways. With this girl i have no sexual feelings towards her. I think this is because i KNOW shes straight whether conciously or subconciously so it would feel wrong to think about her sexually.

I think youre write i what you say. It pribably isnt a crush. As said before, its nothing sexual i just want to be closer to her than perhaps 'normal' friendships allow. It probably is just a need to feel nurtured by her.

Also, lkke uou said it will probably pass as quickly as its come on. Most ny feelings do (probably the bpd). Usually when i realise im not getting what i want (enough attention i guess )

Out of interest, does anyone ever find themself attracted to someone purely because off the attention they give us even if theyre really 'not your type'?