T's need some type of emotional release too. We sometimes forget that they are human. It's always been a goal for me to be able to cry in therapy or anywhere really, but it hasn't happened yet. I've often fantasized how much I want T to cry WITH me. If she ever cried over something, would my deep feelings for her cause me to cry (hopefully)? If I cried first, I wouldn't be able to stand it if she just sat there and stared at me. I'd need her to cry with me.