I totally relate to the issue with identity. Because of my lack of my own identity, I tend to mold to those around me, depending on who I'm with. I also take on their behaviors, likes, dislikes and such over time becoming one of the "crowd". As I went through school, I have been through phases that changed so drastically that I've been the "stoner", the "jock", the "preppie" (if that term is still used), part of the popular crowd, the "artist" (which is probably the only identity that is consistent), even the "bully". In some ways if I'm being positive, I can say that I've experienced life from many perspectives. Of course I am still left as an unshaped blob in the end again but still..