Welcome to PC... I completely, totally understand exactly what you are talking about.

There was this worksheet I was supposed to do recently for a friend's project and it was to list 20 things under the phrase "Who Am I?" and I could only put "mother" and "daughter" because I have no clue who I am or where I want my life to go! GACK!

Needless to say, I didn't help out that friend very much, lol. Glad you joined, hope to see you around.