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Originally Posted by TentativeConnection
Thank you for your support, and while they didn't outright say I don't deserve to be helped and I am a bad person, that is how I feel after reading their posts and their repeated allegations that I treat my T like crap and lack a basic human decency to want to improve that behavior.
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When people say feelings are facts, this is the kind of thing they are referring to. Your feelings are your own, and it is fine to feel however you feel.
But telling people that they MAKE you feel a certain way is a very destructive way to communicate to other people, and is either designed or has the effect of pushing them away-- usually when they are trying to help.