(((nina))) so sorry you are all going through this. Who diagnosed your son with this? What does his pediatrician give for advice? I always go back to the Ped when needed (even if it means calling when he's in the midst of it-so they know how bad it is).

Can you and your hubby take turns with dealing with him? Like Monday morning you get him off to school? Tuesday Dad does? Just so the two of you have a moment of respite. Also how much can grandad do? Is it feasible for your daughter to be able to spend a little bit more time with him until you can get more help. Even a counted on half hour a week can work wonders to one's mental state of mind, right?

I don't know how it is to deal with a child like this, so not even sure any of this advice would work. All I do know is I can tell how much of a loving Mom and wife you are, don't lose sight of that!!! sending you good vibes, L.