When we got divorced, I didn't get child support. He refused to agree to it, said I didn't deserve it and that I'd spend it on partying anyway.
We revised custody this past winter and my lawyer didn't want to push child support then because he thought it would look like that was the only reason I wanted my daughter here the majority of the time. Now the lawyer wants me to come back and go for child support at $200 an hour fees. It's never been court ordered. He's not skipping out on anything.