Maybe you and your wife could both learn something from getting to know each other better.... what you need individually and what you need over all as a man and as a woman.... I am personally am fond of these two books listed below to get the conversation rolling, and there are even website's that you and your wife can look into as well.

Good Luck....

LoVe,
Rhapsody - ((( hugs )))

BOOKS:
For Women Only & For Men Only - -
LINK: http://www.booksamillion.com/ncom/bo...&find=Feldhahn,+Shaunti

WEBSITE:
FOR MEN - - - http://formenonlybook.com/index.aspx
FOR WOMEN - - - http://4-womenonly.com/index.aspx