How can he not agree to it? If the children are his, it's the children's right to it. You can go to a probate court yourself and file the paperwork for child support-you don't need an attorney for that, people get attornies to help them, but it's not needed to file for it. I cannot believe an attorney would give such careless information, this is your children...either go to the court, or call the court to file. Then call the department of revenue, or go to their site and see what you can do. They may even help you establish that. These are his children, he is getting off scott free, and don't let him!!!!! Do you seriously think the attorney or your ex gives a hoot how much you are going trhough at the moment???? Get mad honey, get angry, and get moving! Don't let them get away with it! Who cares who thinks what??? This should have all been taken care of during the divorce proceedings! Phooey on that attorney!!! Ai-ai-ai, that's pure meshugass!!! Oh g'luck (((wi))), if you want send me a PM with what state and county you live in, I will start searching for help for you!!! This is ...oi!