This topic keeps coming up every couple weeks and the bottom line is that in life NO ONE is going to agree with everyone 100% of the time. This site provides for disagreements and triggers by supplying an IGNORE icon.

And

No one can possibly know everyones triggers.

for some people a trigger can be even a smilie or hug

for others it a specfic word. and that word does not have to be a bleep word. for example one of my friends the word - Apple - triggers her because she was raped in an apple orchard. For another friend the word yes is a trigger because her abuse kept saying yes while doing his dirty deed.

Pulling moderators into every post is not going to do anything. They do go through the message boards and remove those posts that go against the site rules. Anything else is left on the boards.

How many other ways do the moderators and members need to keep repeating -

IF you dont like what you are reading or have a problem with some one - CLICK ON THE IGNORE ICON and stop making this into a public problem.

EACH INDIVIDUAL PERSON IS RESPONSIBLE FOR THEIR OWN ON LINE EXPERIENCE.

THAT MEANS - CLICK ON THAT IGNORE ICON WHEN YOU ENCOUNTER A POST THAT YOU DO NOT LIKE OR ONE THAT TRIGGERS YOU.

I also believe it is posts like this that keeps bringing this issue up every couple weeks is in part keeping the members upset about the fact that there are disagreements here.

so my personal suggestion is that when people think there needs to be a post like this that they approach a moderator or administrator and tell the moderator they THIER SELF are encountering this problem so that the moderators and or administrators can help them or post an official reminder of the site rules on this issue that way the whole community is not once again up in arms worrying and looking around trying to locate the problem that the poster is making reference to.

So my opinion on this issue -

DROP IT OFF THE PUBLIC BOARDS AND TAKE THIS ISSUE UP WITH THE MODERATORS AND ADMINISTRATORS WHEN YOU ENCONTER THIS PROBLEM. AND STOP SENDING THE COMMUNITY INTO NEEDLESS WORRY ABOUT FIGHTS AND DISAGREEMENTS THAT THEY ARE NOT A PART OF BY BRINGING THE ISSUE OF DISAGREEMENTS UP ON THE PUBLIC BOARDS.