You know, personally, I dont put the burden of my bipolar on my SO. I want to be treated like a regular girlfriend. My boyfriend knows about the bipolar and is very sensitive to it so he understands when I get mad/emotional. But I try my best to do the work needed to be healthy on my own, like meditate, take my pills. and exercise so I can have peace of mind and the bipolar will be under control as best as it can be.

Thats the best way I think.