Hi back, and thank you once again for your incredibly thoughtful and detailed message. I will most likely talk to her mother-in-law, but feel like flying cross country to talk to our daughter in person as well...AND her husband, in the same room. I want to get a "script" together with my husband, because she is very quick, and we need to be thinking of the deniabity issues...Your experience is frightening. 75 pounds??? How tall are you??? And when did you reconcile with your parents? How old were you at the time? What team of people are helping keep you on track, accountability-wise?
Thank you again!