My life is a huge mess right now. I have a 2 year old son and have been married to his mother for a year. The problem is is that I am still deeply in love with my long time ex girlfriend. We dated for over 7 years but have been separated for about 5 years. Throughout these last 5 years there hasn't been a day go by that I don't think of her and wish we were still together. I have contacted her a few times throughout the years and the weird thing is is that she still feels the same way about me. She says that she thinks of me everyday and wishes we could be together. The other problem is that she is also married and has a 15 month old daughter. It is such a messed up situation becuase I know we belong together. Both of our marriages are unhappy because we are not truly in love with our spouses. Is it worth it to stick out these marriages for our children or will our children be better off in a household that is filled with love. Please tell me what to do!!!