I wanted to tell you that the relationship is going great. The man I am going with now is really caring. He tells me the truth right away, when he dosen't agree or wants me to know how he really sees it. I am so happy. I don't know if you remember me posting about breaking up after 9 years in a lenghtly sad kind of abusive relationship and than I dated for about one year and only recently did I meet and date someone that was worth it. We knew eachother from a support group for a year or so and had great understanding, respect and group love as well. This all worked for me when he was ready to date me and I was ready to date him. It sure has been worth the wait for a good relationship for me. I am so glad that the couple of men I liked but did not like enough, I knew about in my heart of hearts and honestly waited for someone who was truly right for me and did not impulsivly jump at those first couple of nibbles that I went through last year right after I was through with my nine year man. I just wanted you to know that it is worth saving yourself and your affections and waiting for extra long until the guy you truly like becomes available. I am so glad I waited this time . I am glad that I didn't go totally lesbian either. I almost went completly lesbian. I am bi-sexual and do really love girls also, but there "was" room in my heart, I had to believe in the Lord and he answered. But "truly" I do "Love girls" too, girls are always special to my heart and deserve to be. xoxoxo Love Razeljenny