We all like what we like. Some of us like the beach while others the mountains. Some of us like spaghetti while others like steak. Our sexual preferences are the same. My brother in law says don't knock it until you try it. My Husband on the other hand says I don't have to try it to know I don't like it. So it's all in what you like. We are not talking about friends or anything. It's easy to be friends w/ folks who are of different ethnic backgrounds. But I understand where you are coming from friends and life long mates of bed buddies are different entirely. We each have our own preferences. But maybe giving someone of a different ethnic background could prove you wrong and you would have eliminated an entire group of people because of preconceived notions.

To answer your q I don't know how to answer that. I hope the above provides some answers not more questions.