When it comes to sexual attraction, a lot of people seem to know what they want. You seem to be one of them. Should you be open to others who do not fit your desired mold. Maybe. Would you be happy in a relationship that did not satisfy your lifelong desire to sleep with someone like yourself? It seems to me that a lot of people - myself included - are looking to meet and have relationships with people who are similar to themselves. It's not narsicism. Rather, it's a desire for commonality, to have a relationship with someone who feels familiar.

I am in the same position. I am white and am hit on by more asian and african-american men. (In fact, white guys do not seem to be attracted to me in the least.) Latino men do not find me attractive which is a shame because i would marry one in a minute.

the asian guys are often nice and find my hairy body to be exotic and a turn on. but, i am seeking more than sexual attraction. often, i have found their company lacking converation wise. i do find a lot of asian men to be attractive but not the ones who have hit on me. i have had some african-american friends and do find a lot to be physically attractive. however, our values tend to be very different and that is a big warning sign relationship wise.

Finding true love is a time-related thing. If time is running out then it's time to settle for someone with their imperfections (as well as ours). The important thing is that they (and you) are willing to compromise.