That's just it. It never starts as playing house, but quickly morphs into the opposite of what I sought out. Men suddenly decide they're inlove, I didnt know I EVER wanted THAT until I was knee deep in whatever the last relationship even was... It just gets too complicated too fast. Idk how to prevent that. And this time around, I have a different set of complications... Will keep your suggestion in mind for future reference sake tho, coz for right now, and the near future, its out of the question...