Funny you say that about the therapist because he isn't necessarily my ideal therapist, but being in that environment almost forces us to talk. We're more open than we are when we talk just one on one. It is weird. He's there and I say something and he asks my bf what he thinks about that and so on and so forth.
For today I am going to work on this. We may not end up together. I think that is clear. It is an exercise in talking through it and understanding what all of this did to us as individuals and as a couple or friends. For today I am willing to explore and understand. Forgive? Hopefully. Forget? Never. Move on. Yes? Together? that remains to be seen
I go in circles don't I?
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I can't say I'm overly concerned about the dx. Interesting though. Thank you for the information.
When you feel stuck it helps to have people to talk to
I would not be concerned with the dx either. I would not think highly of the T who suggested it, though.
You are not illogical in your behavior - there are things that are good about him; he is a good friend; he is (brutally) honest; he opens up in therapy.
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