G'day all - it's not that i hate shopping , it's the "i'm going to wet myself b4 i get to the checkout if they don't ***n hurry up" !! i don't really know if it's a phobia or if it's just anxiety related ? I can't read minds (DBT) but i'm bl**dy sure if i started cheerleading out loud to myself - singing 'i am beautiful and i belong on this earth' - or something like that ,that people would run away hey !! Now that just might get me to the front of the line would'nt you think!!

I'm just crazy enough to give that a go hey !

I know this is cheerleading ( but are we allowed to use it to try to get what we want )? I know it would make me feel good , but then would i feel guilty about feeling good about getting to the checkout first?? Am i confusing you all cos i am me

cheers dears

Hope you are all safe from the hurricane