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Originally Posted by lou123
I am going through a similar situation.
After fighting every few months for 2.5 years about HER and me making myself think I had jealousy issues, it turns out I was right THE WHOLE TIME. They were talking about sex, had a make out session, went to lunch, went to a movie, he tired to get in her pants several times.
My advice? Where there is smoke, there is fire. If he had an ex and you felt jealous that would be one thing. The fat that they've communicated and he wasn't upfront about it speaks volumes. Let me guess.. he didn't tell you for fear of YOUR reaction?
Yep. sounds about right
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I can understand your perspective after having gone through what you did and many times where there is smoke, there is fire, like you say..
But if you read through the post, he hasn't communicated with her and in his culture they don't talk about exes. She(the ex) was posting on his FB and pursuing him, but it was never stated that she (the gf) found him to be communicating back. He stated that he hasn't communicated back and on top of that offered to defriend her on fb. I don't think there's enough evidence to show that he's pursuing his ex at all.
I'm sorry you went through what you did too though, as I've been there and understand what you're saying.