Its good you're being honest but I think its better to leave the account open in case you want/need to vent in the future. Naturally most of us hope our advice might help but its fine if it didn't and that's not your fault. I've given you advice several times and don't take offense if you don't find it helpful.
Here's a suggestion - when you start a thread, preface it by saying I know all the practical advice but not in a position where it works ATM....but you're looking to vent and have others understand. This happens alot with couples where one person wants to share and the other one is too anxious to be a solver but misses what the person really needs .....which is to listen, maybe relate and empathize. If you don't want advice then say you just need understanding and maybe hugs.
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