Thank you. Now that it's written I have the first step done .. now I just have to figure out a way to give it to her. I feel that if I am in the room then she will not pay as much attention to what I am trying to say in the letter , and just start asking a bunch of questions. I thought about printing it out and taping it to her mirror, or somewhere would she would see it, but I fear that someone else would find it before she does..