I hear you, on your OP. I feel kind of lost on here sometimes as well.

I have, however, "Thanks for this" on many many of your posts; for me, that says not only I'm thankful you posted it, but that it also applies to me.

I'm with lynn. I preface a lot of my posts with, "I don't need suggestions or tools, etc." because I know so much of that already. I don't want that reassurance you were talking about either because it's not set in stone; you're right.

I do want to add that I friend requested you because I enjoy and relate to your posts, and you never responded. There are ppl here that feel you contribute to this forum a great deal, I am one of them.