Life throws so many obstacles in our way I just dont know how people cope :-( I have BPD (dont care bout myself) have an 11 year old Asperger's son ,a 20 year old depressed son a mother who has lung cancer (newly diagnosed) and all the time feel like I should be able to cope ,I CANT ? why ?? Sorry just needed to vent and know there is a lot worse off than me but I am weak :-(