I lile sports and lots of activities, but I am not competative at all. I just want to do my thing and enjoy. So I do sports that are kind of solo, snowboarding, bmxing, rollerblading, yoga etc. I noticed tho at work, and maybe for me it's not just competition, and I can be a team player, but I prefer to work alone too. I can count on me, and I trust me. I don't like having to rely on others for anything. I am competetive with myself, but only on things I am passionate about.

I think it's perfectly fine to not be competative. I always have been labeled as shy too, like it was a really bad thing. I am not shy tho, slighly misunderstood, but I "get" me. So I am good with that.