last night I told her gently that she needed to draw boundaries with her ex. And she did text him saying that. He got upset and texted back with a bunch of empty drama.

I'm afraid of saying 'I need space'. I think this disorder of mine makes it really appealing to be single in a sense that I have a lot of time to myself to let mind relax and unwind. It's a touchy spot. I need to see exactly how much time I want to spend on myself before I go asking for the time.

Thanks for your input.