No, not on purpose, but it still hurts people, and the last thing I want is to hurt people. It is very hard. I can use I statements, but sometimes it seems like I focus too much on just myself. I remember a high school English teacher telling me not to use "I" so much in my writing, so it doesn't look right to me if I have too many sentence starting with "I." T has seemed to regard use of I statements as progress though. Maybe, like most things, it can be overdone. Maybe this is an example of my distortions and twisting things around to mean what I need them to mean.