After 3 different professionals telling you this, it may be something for you to consider. It isn't the end of the world if you are diagnosed with Asperger's or any other thing. Taking the test will help them to either diagnose or rule out Asperger's which will also be a benefit to your treatment. The more info they have, the better they know how to plan for your treatment. If you are diagnosed, then therapy can help with symptoms. There are many positive things that come from having Asperger's too that's been discussed here on PC. If you do have it, it has nothing to do with how your mom raised you so please let her know this. It's a genetic thing like diabetes, cardiac problems, etc.