I start to get feelings, it's only human to have feelings after sex. It feels good i feel wanted but underneath it all I had problems and insecurities that I found this as a coping way for loneliness, I could find a heather way to cope. There is pain in the end, there is attachment even a hint of it the day I don't get feelings I start to question my sanity and worth and potential for future problems. Underneath it is not something I want to do, but i still do it it confuses me at times. Also in the back of my mind I know I'm having sex with someone I don't truly know, fwb don't want us to get too connected or attached. He is a high risk group, worry of std sti is starting to take over me. That's just me