We tried to include her in our stuff, movie marathons, hikes and so forth. She said she doesnt come to visit us, she is there to visit him! She basically attempts to chuck us out of his house if our visits overlap. She monopolizes him, and doesnt even hide it. She has on several occasions, cancelled her plans, to stop him from going off and doing something with us instead. Idk how, or why he takes this BS, but I know its taking its toll on him. I can only imagine what adding a baby to the mix will do