Glad things worked out the way they did.....sometimes I think that T's see a problem & think of a way to work/solve it until they see the REAL reaction from their patient/client. He sounds like a wonderful sensitive T because sounds like he rethought his approach based on your reaction instead of pushing it even farther......he sounds very WISE....sounds like you are very lucky to have a T like him....glad it something that will be worked on along with the other things.......maybe it's not completely "off the menu" but at least it's not the Main Course any longer.