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Originally Posted by Anika.
I lile sports and lots of activities, but I am not competative at all. I just want to do my thing and enjoy. So I do sports that are kind of solo, snowboarding, bmxing, rollerblading, yoga etc. I noticed tho at work, and maybe for me it's not just competition, and I can be a team player, but I prefer to work alone too. I can count on me, and I trust me. I don't like having to rely on others for anything. I am competetive with myself, but only on things I am passionate about.
I think it's perfectly fine to not be competative. I always have been labeled as shy too, like it was a really bad thing. I am not shy tho, slighly misunderstood, but I "get" me. So I am good with that.
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I also am not one to like a team really. I like to do things myself and my way on my own. I only like to have a team if I really, really know the other person or people well and trust them. Everything you said makes sense to me.
I am the oposite. No one thinks I am shy, but I'm actually very shy. (I know, what?) I don't think it's shy. I think it's mistrust. But I think my pressured speach outpaces my desire to keep quiet. I'm weird. Very weird. Supposedly I'm schizoid. I don't seek out friends exactly. I want friends, though, but then I don't. I can't explain.