Parents tend to be more protective of daughters than sons. Just the way of the world...and yes, sometimes it can appear to be judgmental...

My guess is that your parents might feel concerned that you will decide not to go to college because your friend isn't. So, continue to do your best in school, pursue sending applications to colleges and talk frequently to your parents about the goals in life that you dream about.

Let them know that you believe dating people with different life goals is a healthy thing to do. It gives you insight to the variety of people you will encounter and interact with every day during your adult life.

And, for right now, let them know that you are enjoying dating this young man and that he treats you well.