wow, Skylin... I wish I had some good advice for you but right now, all I can say is that my heart goes out to you, your son, and the rest of your family. This has got to be tremendously stressful. I hope that you're getting some help for yourself as well, to deal with the stress.

I'm not in the same situation as you, but I can relate to living with a loved one who isolates, refuses to contribute, and who seems to refuse help. My husband was like that for a few years when he was severely depressed, and some aspects of it still remain although his depression is under control.

Anyway, just wanted you to know that you have my support and I am willing to listen, if that helps.