cluelesscher,

Wow... psych meds can be so frustrating. It can be incredibly difficult to find the right combination of medications even with a psychiatrist who is competent, and who you have confidence in (and it sounds like that was not your experience with Dr. S). I think it is a wise move that you are trying another doctor, and maybe getting a second opinion.
I've grown to believe over 10 years of struggling with depression that a combination of meds, therapy, and holistic approaches (diet, exercise, supplements) is the most helpful approach for me... and that it doesn't have to be one or the other.

Your story about the ER nurse who thought you were leaking serotonin during your period (!) reminded me of a similar experience I had a couple of months ago. One of my diagnoses is SAD... the assessment counselor in the ER (with no humor intended!) referred to this as "Seasonal Defective Disorder." It was all I could do to keep from rolling my eyes.

take care! hope you start feeling a little better soon.
Garden Gal