You can't let a one night fling destroy a good thing. I know I was Nick in your situation and i had been with my boyfirend for ten years I found out he cheated on me twice from his mother and left him. Now he has lost our home his job and so on. I feel bad for him but he got what he deserves for being unfaithful. But if you don't love Nick let him go before you hurt him. i belive that what we put into the world comes back to us. Even though I was completly faithful. Jessica