I hate to sound cleche but communtication is so important! does he know how neglected you feel? if he does then why continue? I think that we hold onto things that don't appropiatly serve us because we are affraid of failure and change. The greatest thing about change though is that you have more oppertunities and choices. Don't give up to the GRIND of life, it is far to short and precious to be passing by a content person. ANGELS ARE GROUNDED BECAUSE THEY ONLY HAVE ONE WING THE ONLY WAY TO FLY IS BY EMBRACING EACHOTHER