Hi,

I never felt stable enough to raise a child. I have a dog & cat - that's enough pressure. I made the decision (while manic) to have a hystorectomy (spell?) at age 35! It was hard to find a Dr and he tried to talk me out of the surgery. My Mother was furious as I'm an only child

But I don't regret my decision. I always thought about Sylvia Plath and her parenting when it came to havng my own kid.

Good luck with your decision,

TnT