I believe that sometimes God allows bad things in order for us to grow stronger, both in our faith and in our relationship with Him.

I would say tell the people at your new church when you are comfortable to do so. I'm sure they will accept you and if they don't then maybe find yourself another church. For me, to talk to people about what I'm going through has always turned out for the better in the end, I always feel comforted and relieved once it's out there. Though it's hard to admit to my problems at first it ends up being worth it to share. That's what church and community is all about I think, lifting each other up and helping each other along the way.

All the best to you.

- A