I know you said men only, but I agree with the statement "once a cheater, always a cheater." -- especially since you forgave him. Now he knows how easy it is to get away with it. You're always going to forgive him, in HIS mind. He KNOWS you're SO in love with him, so he thinks he's got it made. He can cheat, and come home and if he gets caught, he'll apologize all over the place, and you'll forgive him! Boy what a set up!! He couldn't be happier! And of course he has his porn too. And where does all this leave YOU?

That leaves you at home, heart-sick. And that's going to be your life, if you stick with this guy. You deserve SO much better than this. You deserve someone who RESPECTS you, and right now you have a guy who DOESN'T. If he respected you he would NOT be looking at porn at all -- at least not in your home! If he respected you, he never would have cheated at ALL. You deserve a loving and caring man, someone who puts you number ONE -- it seems that porn is number one to him.

Find someone who loves YOU and ONLY YOU. This guy doesn't. God bless and please take care. Prayers coming your way. Hugs, Lee